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What I have in here is something to share with those people who know how to….. LOVE?


Now…

Come to think of it...


... is love what we are really afraid of? Change one letter of that word, and you get the word “lose.” A guy loses when the girl he’s courting happens to fall for someone else. A girl loses when her husband cheats on her and chooses the mistress instead. A lover loses when the loved one decides that he or she wouldn’t have anything to do with the other person anymore. These scenarios can happen in all kinds of variations. The sad thing is, they all bring about hurt. Sometimes this kind of hurt becomes too much for a person to bear. It can cause sickness, it can cause depression, it can cause all kinds of reactions. The worst case of which would be suicidal attempts. Now that probably occurs when the person in love feels that he or she has lost everything – pride, hope, happiness… and even the will to live -- because of the pain that love brought about.

I guess what I’m really trying to say here is that it is NOT love that some of us are afraid of. I mean, what’s there to fear about love, right? Love is such a wonderful feeling. It inspires, it makes our lives so much brighter, it gives us an opportunity to make someone feel special . It is not really something to be afraid of. What we are afraid of, though, is to lose, and the pain that threatens to come along with love, as well. To lose the inspiration that love can bring. To lose one’s self so much in the pleasure of loving and being loved for fear that it might not last long. To lose the feeling of being wanted. Sometimes, these things come unexpectedly when we fall in love, and we mistake the fear of losing for the fear of loving. That is why we hold back. But then, if we don’t risk letting ourselves fall in love, we might regret it. As the saying goes, “It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.” Mushy and idealistic, isn’t it? But it’s most probably true.

Grab from Phoebe's Blog


1. Song that always makes you sad? >> Sing me your song again daddy ( I always cry whenever I sing it)

2. Last thing you bought? >> banana for my bunnyman ( he doesn’t eat rice)

3. Last person you argued with? >> ex-boyfriend?

4. Do you put Butter before putting the jelly on? >> nevah!

5. One of your stuffed animals' names as a kid? >> none

6. Did you ever own at one time a Nysnc Cd? >> nope

7. Favorite day of the week? >> Saturday

8. Favorite Sundae topping? >> chocolate syrup

9. Did you take Piano lessons? >> never, though my dad insisted

10. Most frequent song played? >> Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis

11. T.V. show you secretly enjoy? >> CSI

12. Would you rather play basketball or hockey? >> basketball?

13. Date someone older or younger? >> ahuh!

14. One place you would wish to travel right now? >> Palawan

15. Do you use umbrellas? >> yep

16. Do you know all the words to the Canadian national anthem? >> eerrrrr…

17. Favorite Cheese? >> any kind of cheese as long as it is a cheese

18. Disturbed or My Chemical Romance? >> leh me think…….

19. Do you prefer Blondes or Brunettes? >> blondes

20. Best job you ever had? >> when I was an accounting staff

21. Did you go to your high school prom? >> never had one 

22. Perfect time to wake up? >> 5:30 am

23. Perfect time to go to bed? >> 10pm

24. Do you use your queen right away in chess? >> don’t know how to play them, geeeezzzz………….

25. Ever been in a car accident? >> never

26. Closer to mom or dad...or neither? >> my hotta momma

27. What age is this exciting life over for you? >> don’t care…as long as I enjoy my life everyday

28. What decade during the 20th century would you have chosen to be a teenager? >> this decade of course (where everyone understands liberal when applied to life)

29. Favorite shoes you have EVER owned? >> my KEDS

30. Do you have an article of clothing you have had since you were in high school? >> I guess… (mama have them in her closet)

31. Were you in track and field? >> nope

32. Were you ever in a school talent show? >> yipe!...

33. Have you ever written in a library book? >> ahuh!

34. Allergic to? >> dust (cause I sneeze too much!)

35. Favorite fruit? >> apple

36. Have you watched sex and the city? >> yup. but can't recall a single episode >>> same here bhem! hahahah

37. Baseball hat or toque? >> baseball hat will do, hahahah!

38. Do you shampoo first in the shower or soap? >> shampoo

39. Wet the toothbrush or brush dry with the toothpaste? >> wet the toothbrush

40. Pen or pencil? >> pencil

41. Have you ever gambled at a casino? >> nah!

42. Have you thrown up on a plane? >> never ride on a plane

43. Have you thrown up in a car? >> when I was a kid

44. Have you thrown up at work? >> no

45. Do you scream on roller coasters? >>Yes! At the top of my lungs! hahaha

46. Who was your first prom date? >> never had a prom, so sad!

47. Who was your first roommate? >> my tropa friend, glady…

48. What alcoholic beverage did you drink when you got drunk for the first time? >> GINEBRA (yung bilog!Luffeeeettt nun!)

49. What was your first job? >> a customer service representative (bayantel)

50. What was your first car? >> never had one

51. When did you go to your first funeral? >> my grandmama (sad)

52. How old were you when you first traveled away from your hometown? >> 19

53. Who was your first grade teacher? >> Ms. Salve Patetico (don’t know where she is right now)

54. Where did you go on your first airplane ride? >> ?

55. When you snuck out of your house for the first time, who was it with? >> with friends

56. Who was your first Best Friend and are you still friends with them? Armi G. (she left for California)

57. Where did you live the first time you moved out of your parent's house? >> to my ex house (had a trial marriage)

58. Who is the first person you call when you have a bad day? >> no one. I just look for friends who can drink with my beer! hahaha

59. Who's wedding were you in the first time you were a bridesmaid or a groomsmen? >> my cousin’s wedding (maid of honor)

60. What is the first thing you do in the morning? >> checking on cellphones

61. What was the first concert you attended? >>hmmm… Introvoys with Geneva Cruz

62. First tattoo or piercing? >>ear piercing … but soon…. TATTOOS!

63. First celebrity crush? >> Richard Gomez, hahaha!!!